Andrew {age 8} and Matt {age 1} 1982

 I can’t believe it’s already November!  This is always a month of reflection for me.  Andrew and Matthew were both born in November.  This will be the 15th birthday without Andrew and the 11th without Matt.  I think about them and remember when they were here and wonder what their lives would have been.  If I’m not careful, I can still go to that place of grief and overwhelming saddness.  After all these years though, I prefer to find the joy in the happy, fun and crazy memories of my brothers.  I miss them!  During this month of thanksgiving, I’m grateful for the time I had with them. 

 Happy Birthday to you!

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